Remembering Dustin
by Kathryn Dobies
kdobies@mdjonline.com
June 17, 2010 12:00 AM | 2287 views | 15 15 comments | 15 15 recommendations | email to a friend | print
A family friend consoles Kathy Inman, the mother of Dustin Inman, during the candlelight vigil at the Rolling Hills Memory Gardens Cemetery in Acworth, marking the 10-year anniversary of Dustin’s death. Dustin Inman was killed in a car crash in 2000 involving an illegal alien who has yet to be brought to justice. Kathy Inman has been, and will continue to be confined to a wheelchair since the accident that took her son’s life. <br>Photo by Alexander Acosta
A family friend consoles Kathy Inman, the mother of Dustin Inman, during the candlelight vigil at the Rolling Hills Memory Gardens Cemetery in Acworth, marking the 10-year anniversary of Dustin’s death. Dustin Inman was killed in a car crash in 2000 involving an illegal alien who has yet to be brought to justice. Kathy Inman has been, and will continue to be confined to a wheelchair since the accident that took her son’s life.
Photo by Alexander Acosta
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The parents of Dustin Inman, the Cherokee County teenager killed in a car accident caused by an illegal immigrant, conducted a candlelight vigil Wednesday night to commemorate the 10th anniversary of their son's death.

Roughly 35 people gathered around Dustin's grave at Rolling Hills Memory Gardens Cemetery in Acworth.

On June 16, 2000, Father's Day weekend, Billy, Kathy and Dustin Inman were driving up to Hiawassee in the north Georgia mountains from their home in Cherokee County to spend the weekend with family. At around 9 p.m., their car was slammed into from behind while they were stopped at a red light in Ellijay. Dustin, who was 16, and the family dog died at the scene. Kathy and Billy were knocked unconscious and flown to a nearby hospital.

The driver of the other car, Gonzalo Harrell-Gonzalez, told translators he fell asleep at the wheel. It was later found that Harrell-Gonzalez was in the U.S. illegally and able to obtain a valid North Carolina driver's license using his Mexican birth certificate and Mexican ID card.

Harrell-Gonzalez was charged with vehicular homicide and reckless driving, but fled from police when taken to Hamilton Medical Center in Dalton. With whereabouts unknown, he has never been brought to justice.

Since the accident, Billy and Kathy have been vocal in the fight to stop illegal immigration. At a rally in Doraville in 2004, the couple met Marietta activist D.A. King, who changed the name of his anti-immigration activism group to the Dustin Inman Society to keep Dustin's memory alive.

Billy said he thanks King for naming the organization after his son, and that Dustin would be proud to know his name now stands for such an important cause.

"I'm just proud to be his daddy," Billy said of his son. "I miss him so much. There's nothing I can do to bring him back, but I don't want you or someone else to go through what we've been through, because it's just not right."

Following the crash, Kathy Inman, who suffered severe spinal injuries, spent five weeks in a coma. She and her husband were unable to attend Dustin's funeral because of their injuries. Kathy has had countless surgeries over the past 10 years, and will spend the rest of her life in a wheelchair.

Mary Kirkendoll, a friend of the Inmans and an anti-illegal immigration activist, set up a fund recently for the Inmans at Regions Bank to help them pay for Kathy's medical bills. She is recovering from her latest surgery, which occurred last week.

"I'm thankful for it, but I kind of feel funny," Billy said of the fund. "I'm still holding my head up, but the way times are now, everybody's struggling. And there's so many people losing their jobs and their houses. It's appreciated and it does help."

Billy, 46, who works as a truck driver, said he took 56 days off work last year alone to take his wife to the hospital. While he said he tries to take care of her as much as he can himself, he said he often needs someone to help him, since Kathy needs care 24 hours a day.

As the Inmans continue to remember their son, Billy says he wants people to realize that accidents like the one that tore his family apart can happen to anyone, and that the government needs to do more to secure the country's borders.

"It just breaks my heart that we have to pay for these illegals. We can do that for their family, but they can do this to my family. It's just not right," he said.

King said he hears stories like Dustin's on a weekly basis. At one point, King's organization tried to track all of the deadly accidents and crimes committed by illegal immigrants through newspaper stories, but couldn't keep track of them all.

"This is in memory of a young man who is forever 16 because our government refuses to secure our borders," King said.

King and the Dustin Inman Society have been at the forefront of the illegal immigration debate in Cobb County, particularly in the wake of the recent arrest of illegal immigrant and Kennesaw State University student Jessica Colotl. Colotl made headlines and has received aid and support from immigrant rights groups after being arrested for driving without a license and then detained by immigration officials.

Billy Inman said no one stepped up to help his family when the accident happened.

"I'm sorry for that Jessica Colotl girl, but she's studying law - she knows the law," Billy said. "When this happened to me, I didn't have a soul that jumped up to help me. And this is more of a tragedy than that."

Although King's organization has been criticized for being a hate group, Inman says that's just not true.

"We're not racist. There's good and bad in everybody, but the bottom line is you're either legal or illegal."

Donations for the Inman Family can be made through the Inman Family Fund at any Regions Bank branch in Georgia.
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Pat H
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June 18, 2010
Dear ILoveAmericaToo,

I think Jesus would say to the illegal alien supporters as well has the one who killed Dustin - Thou shalt not kill. To those who say they are only coming to work - Thou shall not steal. To those who come illegally to improve their life - Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's goods.

And to you, Go my son, and sin no more.
God Bless You
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June 18, 2010
What a sad story and I think Mr. Inman hit the nail on the head when he talked about all of these people going to bat for the illegal aliens but no going to bat for them when this happened. How truly sad.
passerby
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June 18, 2010
I second the suggestions given by Bubba H. (below)

IF and until there are stiff penalties not only in place BUT are strictly enforced, these LAWBREAKERS will just keep'a comin' to this land just ripe for the taking. Are our officials so blind or just unconcerned about their own country that they can't see the distruction caused by the influx of these lawbreakers. Just look at crime up in every field, gangs are prevailent, turn the light on and they run like cockroaches. CLOSE and secure all our nation's borders THEN GET RID of ALL these nambe-pambe politicians.
Frankie58
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June 17, 2010
el paso..This "vendetta" as you so called it, against ILLEGALS, is not just because of the actions of just ONE, it is because of the actions of thousands in this county. The Sheriff's Dept has identified over 4000 since the inception of 287g and I hope they continue to find more. As long as this Sheriff continues to run for office, I, and many other will continue to vote for him!!!
ILoveAmericaToo
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June 17, 2010
My dear friends, please do not forget that our dear Savior Jesus and his family (who Dustin is with now!) were also illegal immigrants when they fled to escape the slaughter! In the name of Christ we must stop this hate in Cobb. Only just immigration reform is worthy of this "One Nation, Under God" where we live. Let us pray for our Sheriff, his deputies and our Governor to do the Christian thing. Ask yourselves: "Who Would Jesus Deport?"
Pat H
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June 17, 2010
God bless Billy and Kathy.

Unfortunately, Dustin was only one of far too many citizens killed by illegals here in Cobb County, one of whom was a Deputy Sheriff.

We will not take no for an answer Gov. Perdue and our spineless legislators. Either institute an Arizona law with serious teeth for employers, or resign. You are not doing the jobs you are paid to do.
el paso
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June 17, 2010
A vendetta against undocumented immigrants, because of an accident caused by one, is not worthy.
Trying
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June 17, 2010
Thank You MdJ. for the Story an ALL folks who help end/curb this Problem , we have to Keep Trying,

Dustin's Dad
Mad Tax Payer
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June 17, 2010
This is a classic case of domestic terrorism illegal’s are overrunning the county stealing tax dollars but most importantly taking American lives and ruining families!! We need to stop illegal’s baby births they shouldn’t be a citizen and is another crime against America.
Change your Mind?
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June 17, 2010
Now maybe all the people who ridicule Mr. King for his comments and mission will now more clearly understand why he does and says what he does. Our community should be proud of and support Mr. King in his mission.

Prayers to this family in their troubles and losses.
mk-thanks sheriffs!!
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June 17, 2010
Thank you so much to all the sheriff' s departments that came to show support & pay respects to this family. In attendance were members of the Cobb County Sheriff Dept., Whitfield Sheriff's Dept., Gwinnett County Sheriff's Dept., members of the Cobb & Gwinnett Immigration & Customs Task Force & several of the fine Gwinnett County Honor Guards. These men & women are the folks I'm proud to know & support. We appreciate your hard work & hope more American police & sheriff's departments will follow your lead to protect this country!

God bless the Inman family!
two cents
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June 17, 2010
I just forwarded this story with a passionate plea to our president.

I cannot believe such a tragedy occurs as a results of the actions taken by those illegals who do not have a respect for the laws of this country and the lack of action by the past and current administrations.

I encourage others to forward this article to a politicians - local, state or federal.
Horrible situation
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June 17, 2010
I am saddened to hear about this families tragedy. The government is to blame. I am positive this illegal is still in the country and probably right here in our state. I am an ESOL teacher and the parents are caught driving and deported all the time. Within 6 months they are back in the US. The governement is not going to fix this issue because they are too selfish!
Bubba Hotepp
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June 17, 2010
illegal is illegal. Anyone who enters this country illegally should be arrested, sterilized and deported immediately no matter how it is discovered. I think all check cashing facilities should require all information to enter into a database to see if that person is here legally. If not, on site security takes them away right then. People that hire them for work should lose citizenship rights. The US Government that we keep electing does not seem to care because they want their illegal votes to keep them in office. States like Arizona have to step up and make this a place illegals do not want to come to. Build a fence on all borders and arm it with our military with shoot to kill orders for anyone trying to cross outside of designated checkpoints. No penalty, no worry attitudes may stop then.
Darlene in Smyrna
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June 17, 2010
I weep for the Inmans.
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