Tradition continues
by Jon Gillooly
jgillooly@mdjonline.com
April 17, 2010 12:00 AM | 1848 views | 4 4 comments | 17 17 recommendations | email to a friend | print
MHS prom at Burruss House
MHS prom at Burruss House
Marietta High School seniors gather for their traditional group photo in front of the Burruss home before leaving for their senior prom. <br>Photo by Laura Moon
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MARIETTA - In what has become a not-to-be-missed pre-prom destination, about 150 mostly senior Marietta High School students, along with their friends and family, stopped by the elegant Kennesaw Avenue home of Ms. Bobbi Burruss to have their pictures made on the sweeping circular staircase that leads to her front door Friday evening.

A great- grandmother, Ms. Burruss is the lively 78-year-old widow of the late state Rep. A.L. Burruss, a mover and shaker in the General Assembly who served as House Speaker Pro Tem and Majority Leader at the time of his death in 1986.

Ms. Burruss said the prom affair started in the late 1960s, when her son, Robin Burruss, now CEO of the family's food manufacturing business Tip Top Poultry, attended Marietta High. The family pool house behind the Burruss home was a favorite hangout for teenagers, "and that way I could keep an eye on them. I wasn't born yesterday," Ms. Burruss said.

The MHS superlatives began gathering on her front porch to be photographed, and the event morphed into the entire senior class doing so before taking their dates to prom, she recalled.

"As many beautiful homes as there are in Marietta, I can't imagine why they keep coming, but now it's the children of the those children. I look out and I see those grandparents and knowing they had theirs done right here - that's why a lot of the kids want to come, because their grandparents did," she said.

Senior Melanie Valentine, who intends to study psychology at University of West Georgia in Carrolton, said she's been waiting to be photographed in her prom dress on Ms. Burruss' staircase for a long time.

"I've seen it every year in the paper, like even when I was a little girl, and it's something I've always looked forward to, and this year I finally got to do it. It's exciting to be here," she said.

The time has come, she said, to grow up.

"It's bittersweet because I have met so many wonderful friends at Marietta, and I have to say goodbye to them, but I am ready to move on and try new things," Valentine said.

Valentine said she bought her dress at Tie the Knot on the Square.

"It was the second dress I tried on and I fell in love with it - second dress. That's pretty good. I have to say my mom actually picked it out, and I tried it on and it was perfect," she said.

Senior Erik Houston, who is bound for the U.S. Military Academy this summer with nominations from U.S. Sens. Johnny Isakson and Saxby Chambliss, chose a creative way to ask senior Savannah King as his date.

"I did a scavenger hunt and laid out the letters P, R, O, M throughout the school, and she found them throughout the day, and we met at the end of the day," Houston said.

Added King, who intends to study chemistry at the University of Georgia: "I said 'yes,' of course."

Ms. Burruss said the students who flood her lawn every year are always on their best behavior.

"They are so well behaved. I was telling the principal, what a nice job. I don't see smokers out there. They don't ever mess up the flowers. It is just amazing, they really take notice where they are," she said.

Ms. Burruss said she hasn't seen much of a change in the Marietta High School students over the years.

"I don't know. Maybe (principal Leigh Colburn) gives them a talk before they come. I had no idea until this year that she was out there directing everything, and I think the kids respect her that much."

On second thought, the young ladies do dress a bit differently these days, Ms. Burruss said.

"The dresses have evolved. They're so 'with it' now. It is not 'Gone with the Wind'-Belle South, you know, anymore. It's Hollywood," she said.

Colburn expected around 450 students to attend the prom at the Hilton Marietta Conference Center. The theme was "Under One Moon," and it was a prom for both juniors and seniors. Colburn said one of the things that makes Marietta special is the connection between past and present.

"We had a lot of people out here who are parents who went to Marietta High School," Colburn said. "We had a couple whose dads played on the football team together. And they were here tonight, so I think that's part of what makes it special is a reconnection with the students and the past, and I think it's a beautiful setting and we were lucky with the weather tonight, and so it's just, I think, a nice way and a nostalgic way for the kids to start out on the prom."
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SEnior Tradioton Gon
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April 20, 2010
It is sad that we chose to talk about tracdition when the truth is we chose to small of a venue and lost the traditional Senior Walk it was the talk at the Burruss house and how at least they had this tradition left.. It is so sad to see such a tradition lost it was the seniors last horay so to speak...
Marietta Grad
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April 19, 2010
In the 90's it was pretty much just those people who had a connection to (were friends with) A Burruss. Seems like now it is indeed just a free for all. Too much if you ask me.
Marietta Momx5
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April 17, 2010
She is very gracious to allow it, but it really has gotten out of hand. In the last 5-8 years, I'd say the crowd has doubled. I think previously perhaps people felt like they shouldn't go there unless they had some sort of connection to Mrs. Burruss, even as a "friend of a friend" but now it's just a free for all. It is fun to see everyone, see all the dresses and who is going with who...which is what makes Marietta a small town in the midst of all the subdivision schools, but now it's just getting to be too much. And as nice as she is about saying they don't mess up anything, it looks pretty rough after the crowd has gone. I too hope they can keep up that tradition of gathering the seniors (the juniors often meet at the Garden Center when there is not an event scheduled--someone always calls first and asks for permission), but this has turned into too much of a good thing.
Clarifying tradition
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April 17, 2010
Similar events started with Ms. Burruss' children for the superlatives and around graduation time and then resurged with the "daughters" Ms. Colburn mentions who were actually the daughters of the daugher... so Ms. Burruss' granddaughters. The event was a MUCH smaller "invitation only" event in the beginning - limited to the personal friends of the Burruss children and Burruss grandchildren. At that time, a small reception took place in the house or in the backyard. For the first twenty or so years, it didnt happen every year, but was sporadic event based upon the attendance of direct Burruss descendents or close acquaintenances who requested the photo op. Over the last twenty years, the event has become a Marietta coming of age tradition. The picture on the staircase with the seniors and their dates has been taking place for the last twenty years or so and Ms. Burruss is so kind to continue to allow the seniors and their guests to come every year. Unfortunately, the tradition is entering its later years as Ms. Burruss is obviously aging, the larger crowds are causing huge parking issues in the neighborhood, and there are SO MANY students now. I hope the tradition of the senior gathering and pictures will continue since it is the spirit of the event and not the location that makes it special. I heard Ms. Colburn say they are looking to "contract" the photo opportunity in coming years with either the Garden Center or Brumby Hall. Hopefully, she can do so and the event can continue without becoming more of an intrusion for Ms. Burruss in coming years. It is obvious she enjoys it but she can always come and be an official host at a more accessible location that is more suitable for today's large crowd. It is a perfect Marietta event - past and present. Just beautiful! I enjoyed the MDJ video. Thank you for the coverage.
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