by Kim Isaza
kisaza@mdjonline.com
February 24, 2010 01:00 AM | 2547 views | 36

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MARIETTA - Walker School Headmaster Don Robertson sent a letter to parents last week regarding the underage drinking party that police broke up at the home of Marietta lawyer Diane Busch on Dec. 22.
"Many of you have seen the accounts of an incident that occurred at the home of a Walker parent that involved Walker students and the use of alcohol," Robertson wrote to parents on Feb. 19. "The incident took place on December 22 when the school was on holiday break. ... I have received reports that there were eighteen Walker students assembled together when the police arrived. All were given breathalyzer tests and it was discovered that ten of the students had consumed alcohol and eight had not. The ten who consumed alcohol were cited by the police and may face legal consequences for their behavior.
"Let me make it clear that Walker does not condone the underage use of alcohol. It is against the law and considered to be a major violation of school rules," Robertson wrote.
However, there isn't much the school can do since the party was not related to any school-sanctioned event, he wrote.
"Due to the fact that it is impossible for the school to monitor our students during holidays, weekends, and over the summer, our comportment policy applies to our students when they are on campus, at any school activity, or on the way to any school activity. Understand that when students are not in our care, we don't ignore unacceptable behavior. When we become aware of factual information that involves our students' behavior when they are not under our supervision, we contact appropriate parents and share our knowledge with them. It is often assumed that we are aware of everything that happens. This is not the case. We often find out about inappropriate events from parents who call to see that we are informed. I urge you to follow that practice," Robertson wrote.
"The youth of America are threatened on a regular basis by the use of alcohol and drugs. It is essential that parents, teachers, school officials, and law enforcement work together to face this challenge. Several parents have told me that they are using this event as an opportunity to discuss with their children the impact their behavior can have on their family, friends, and the school," he wrote.
He concluded, "It is an opportunity to turn a horrible situation into a teachable moment."
Walker is a private school at Cobb Parkway and Allgood Road in Marietta, offering grade pre-kindergarten through high school. Walker has 367 students enrolled in its high school, where the annual tuition is $17,175.
Under the "Comportment," or behavior, section of Walker's student handbook are seven "major school rules," including: students will not lie, cheat, steal, or enable others to do so; and, students will not use or possess tobacco, matches, alcohol, non-prescription drugs, or dangerous objects on campus or at school functions.
There are drug and alcohol treatment centers that offer programs for teenaged victims of drug addiction.
Please read my comment and then scroll down to what "Get Real" has to say. My comments were a somewhat tongue in cheek response to his. No, I don't think it's ok to have teenagers drinking in my home, keys or no keys. "Get Real" thinks it's ok. I just said, among other things, that IF you're going to do it, at least have the presence of mind to actually supervise what's going on.
I and several other parents will be holding our school to these words...
Let me get this straight; you think it is OK to have teenagers illegally drinking at your home so long as you take away their car keys and keep them in the house, but you are shocked at the unethical behavior of the parents involved in this incident? I, for one, am very happy I don't have friends like you. Let me tell how this could have been handled. First, don't let teenagers drink in your house. Second, when you and the kids get caught, accept the consequences, don't try to throw your political weight around, and don't try to pretend it's no big deal.
Ex Walker Parent has it right:.... "This whole mess isn't about teenage drinking." It's about abuse of power and the unethical behavior of those who are SWORN to uphold our laws.
But back to the drinking. Go ahead and have your teen-drinking party and take the keys away. Ms. Busch managed to neglect that part...I suppose she was too drunk to remember the bit about the keys. Yes, I remember drinking in fields growing up. I also remember going to several funerals over my high school years. I went to another one 13 months ago. My heartbroken kids now understand and appreciate the overprotection.
Think about the trigger of this current situation....the kids were popping balloons in the driveway. Where did they get the balloons? Someone had filled one of their cars with them as a prank. The balloons were discovered when the kids went out to the car. Why go out to the car?....maybe to drive off somewhere else????? Fortunately, we won't know.
Ms. Busch wasn't even aware of the presence of many of the teens there. They might have been half-looped when they arrived (by driving)at the party. This is not my definition of a "supervised" teen drinking party. But it was at her house, so she is the person to be held liable.
Wouldn't this story have had a much happier ending if Ms. Busch (or Ms. Middleton) had made an appearance in the basement, realized what was going on and either confiscated keys and/or started calling parents? Oh, AND locked the kids INSIDE the house.
Back to the meat of the issue.....one would think that INTEGRITY would not be that difficult of a concept for a judge to grasp, albeit a drunk one. And we can add to the mix a senator, another (higher-level) judge, and a few other assorted legal types. Something's definitely wrong with this picture.
In addition, it may interest some to know that the “don’t you know who I am attitude” is as pervasive at our public school as it is at our private school! I have often found that one’s opinion of oneself is an issue of character, not income.
I believe that school is for learning to read, to write and to do arithmetic. The rest is up to us, parents. Perhaps if we focused on our school’s ability to perform at the academic level, instead of insisting that they also raise and/or shield our children, we might have more respect for the time and effort most teachers put into their work. Could this be true no matter what the cost of your child's education?
Consider this: the possibility that private school tuition has become less about the quality of learning and more about segregation from “unsightly (define this for yourself)” behavior.
The difference in the public schools is that Cobb County has implemented a rather strict ruling concerning drinking and drugs that impacts a student for an entire year.
Everyone knows it happens or they live in a cave. Keep in mind the issue - bending of the laws, asking for special favors from police officers sworn to uphold the law, and then trying to coverup your actions.Did Middleton, Busch and Wiles even think about the position they were putting the police officers in that night? I commend the officers for upholding the law.
This furor really has very little to do with the teenagers. I for one have several parties for kids and or adults at my home, but never together. And never drunk adults with kids present. If you don't understand how that is a bad idea, you shouldn't be called a parent.