Dress Codes
October 09, 2009 01:00 AM | 608 views | 4 4 comments | 11 11 recommendations | email to a friend | print
Jonathan Escobar, 16, withdrew from North Cobb High School amid controversy over his attire.
Jonathan Escobar, 16, withdrew from North Cobb High School amid controversy over his attire.
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Schools have had dress codes since time immemorial, or at least it seems that way, and with good reason. Schools are centers of learning. They're not primarily meant to be forums for "self-expression."

And that brings us to North Cobb High School, where sophomore Jonathan Escobar, 16, is in the news for his decision to start attending school this year dressed in women's garb.

"I'm not going to dress like a man," he told the MDJ. "I'm not going to wear depressing boring clothes. I'm going to express myself."

And so he did, wearing a bright pink wig and high-heels on his second day of school, which caused at least two fights to break out between students who supported him and those who did not.

He also chose to use the women's restroom, rather than the men's.

"I think it was on the second day that the football team really started to notice me," said Escobar, who later in the MDJ interview identified himself as gay. "They were just staring. I think they're all secretly in love with me."

He added that he didn't see what all the fuss was about, saying, "I didn't wear a mini-skirt."

School officials, aware that if he used the men's room it might be dangerous for him, then allowed him to use the staff restroom. They did not send him home to put on something more appropriate for an educational setting, but they told him he could no longer wear clothing that causes disruptions. And that was the correct decision on their part.

Escobar saw otherwise. He dropped out of school and contacted local media, and since then has reportedly been contacted by the national media as well. As the story grows, don't be surprised to see Cobb trashed as a community of "hate-mongers" and "gay-bashers," etc. As anyone who lives here knows, that is far from the truth. Cobb, like any community, has its share of those with narrow minds, but we suspect the overwhelming consensus here is that schools are meant for learning - not for acting out as fashion provocateurs.

It's possible that Escobar's actions might well be part of the continuing changes in our culture, and that the day may be just around the corner when it is routine even for high school, and even younger, children to attend school in transgendered attire. That day is not here yet, not quite. But it's one more issue that the Cobb school board - and its counterparts around the country - had best assume will arrive sooner than later, and start getting ready for.
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cobb expat
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October 13, 2009
It is very disconcerting that in all of the discussion about this student's wardrobe there was no mention of his potentially being transgendered. We are talking about a child, and children handle issues that make them insecure in different ways, clearly Escobar is dealing with the potential odium of his classmates in advance by taking his flambouyancy to the extreme. I sincerely hope that this child's parents and school counselors are addressing what is most likely the real issue here rather than just treating this as another plea for attention. If Escobar is indeed transgendered there is no reason he should not be allowed to attend school in clothing appropriate to his true gender. Genitalia should not dictate what we are and are not allowed to wear. Kudos also to North Cobb for providing a gender neutral bathroom.
anonymous
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October 11, 2009
If Escobar really wante to be in school he would of enrolled and started school Aug 10 like everyone else. He stats that he has been here since this summer. He enrolled on Sept 29. He should have been expelled for using the girls restroom. I would of had a fit if was in the restoom with my daughter. This whole thing is a publicity stunt and it is evidently working for him. The said thing is that this isthe best thing our media has to worry about.
West Cobb
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October 10, 2009
I work at a Cobb County elementary school. I have yet to see a boy dresses in feminine attire. However, several girls dress in what would be considered more appropriate for a boy, i.e. baggy basketball shorts, football jerseys, converse sneakers (low and high top). When girls do that they are considered "Tom Boys" without any derogetory conotations. I do not condone what Escobar did, but at what point is it considered "cross dressing"? Also, the articles say HE checked himself into school and HE checked HIMSELF out of school. He is a 16 year old CHILD. Doesn't he need a legal guardian to do that?
justthinkin
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October 09, 2009
Wigs, high heels, FASHION, oh my! This kid is having a ball. Meanwhile, count on the ACLU to come creeping around, along with the any other activist this young man happens to impress. The school administrators and the School Board need to stand their ground.
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