Hundreds gather to remember Lassiter grad killed in car wreck
by Rachel Cooper
rcooper@mdjonline.com
July 13, 2012 12:36 AM | 20556 views | 9 9 comments | 28 28 recommendations | email to a friend | print
MARIETTA — Family, friends, teachers and classmates remembered Ryan Aschenbach as a great friend and passionate athlete at a memorial service at Johnson Ferry Baptist Church in Marietta on Thursday.

Tyler Seaman, 18, who survived the Saturday night car accident that took Ryan’s life, had been friends with him since the two went to Simpson Middle School in northeast Cobb together.

“We share almost every single interest together — music, sports, everything,” Tyler said with tears in his eyes. “He made anyone laugh. He was everyone’s best friend at Lassiter.”

Jared Aarons, 18, became friends with Ryan as a freshman at Lassiter, where the two were classmates for four years.

“His personality is incredible. He had the best of all of us,” Jared said, choking back tears. “He’s got the humor, he’s got the passion, he’s got everything.”

David Aschenbach told the crowd of hundreds about his son’s passions.

“He could hit a golf ball high and straight by the time he was three,” he said with tears in his eyes and a smile on his face. “He loved baseball and basketball and was nearly unbeatable at ping pong. He loved history, and he loved to write. He always said he wanted to live during the ’40s and ’50s because of how classy the people were.”

David Aschenbach coached his oldest son in sports.

“Ryan loved to play basketball,” he said. “I got to coach Ryan and enjoyed playing with him. I’m convinced he would be an amazing dad someday.”

He said Ryan had a great relationship with his younger brother, Zach, 15.

“They never had a fight,” he said tearfully as his youngest son stood next to him and buried his face behind his hand.

Zach, a rising sophomore at Lassiter, has tuberous sclerosis, a genetic disease that causes tumors. He had to have a heart surgery when he was young, which Tyler said inspired Ryan.

“His little brother had heart problems when he was young, so Ryan’s always wanted to be a heart surgeon,” Tyler said.

Many Lassiter students attended the service, so when David Aschenbach talked about his son receiving the senior superlative “Best to Take Home to Mom and Dad,” the room filled with the laughter.

Johnny Yoder, a close friend of Ryan’s, spoke about the young man’s zest for life.

“Ryan lived life to the fullest, no matter what was going on,” he said, fighting back tears.

The Aschenbach family lives in Northhampton neighborhood in Marietta. Ryan was a member of Johnson Ferry Church along with his family, where they regularly worship.

Ryan is still making an impact after his death: He was an organ donor, and already at least seven people have benefited from that decision, including a soldier.

Ryan died after a Saturday evening crash on Trickum Road. Seaman and Christopher Heitzman, 18, were riding with him when his 2006 Volvo S40 crossed over the double lines and collided with an oncoming car. Seaman was released from WellStar Kennestone Hospital in Marietta, and Heitzman is in a critical, but stable condition at Grady Memorial Hospital in Atlanta, according to a Grady spokesperson.

Ryan is survived by his mother, Amy Aschenbach, and father; sisters Summer, 19, and April, 17; and Zach.
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southernkid
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September 18, 2012
To those you mad at the post who asked about the other family, you are ridiculous. He was driving in a manner he should not have been and no one is concerned for the other party. Don't lie to yourselves and say yea someone should think of her when really everyone should be because she did nothing and had no fault while this boy did. It is sad to lose a life but to tell someone they should not care about the other drive is horrid.
PassingStranger
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July 18, 2012
It is comforting to hear the celebration of Ryan's life after this tragic accident. Although I don't know anyone involved personally I stopped shortly after the accident happened and spoke with Tyler until paramedics arrived. I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of such an incredible young man. God bless all of the families & friends involved!!
middleschoolteacher
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July 13, 2012
I knew Ryan from middle school and was so glad to hear he hadn't changed. The person and character that were evident in middle school were with him as he got older. The services were very touching and it hurt my heart to see his friends hurting so much. God bless his wonderful family.
maryh3959
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July 13, 2012
very well put abjkedo....that was possibly one of the meanest things I've ever read
justme13
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July 14, 2012
Agreed!!! Not to mention this article was about the celebration of Ryan's life, not the accident that took him away. Accidents happen and it could have easily been the other way around. This family and community have endured enough pain without unnecessary comments.
d-Socrates
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July 13, 2012
So any word or information on the condition(s) of the other driver(s)that the kid crossed over the lane and smashed into?
abjkedo
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July 13, 2012
I understand the point that we should be concerned about the other driver as well. Many of Ryan's friends have been asking about her and her condition is unknown. However, I wish you would be a little more tactful with the way you ask the question. This young man lost his life over an ACCIDENT! Yes, he was at fault. Yes, the other driver should be discussed as well. But to be so rude astounds me.
Family Friend
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July 16, 2012
You should have a lot more respect for the family of this fine, young gentleman who simply made an error in judgment while driving. It was an accident, not an intentional act on his part. I am certain the other driver is devastated and heart-broken over the Ryan losing his life as well as being concerned for the other passenger who remains in critical condition. You truly need to re-think the tone of your comment and make an apology.
Family Relative
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July 16, 2012
To set the record straight...Ryan's car hydroplaned during a heavy down pour. He was going around a turn in the road when his car hydroplaned and crossed the line. The accident was unavoidable given the road and weather conditions.
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