By By Elizabeth Farnsworth
Marietta Daily Journal Staff Writer
Ray Grissom's smile lights up the room the minute he walks in. He's happy-and he should be. On Nov. 30, the Campbell High School senior found out he had won a scholarship for full tuition and living expenses at Yale University.
The scholarship, a $191,200 value over four years, comes from QuestBridge, which matches "bright, motivated, low-income students" with top universities. Grissom was one of 204 students across the world to nab a full ride this year. Eighteen other QuestBridge students are also headed to Yale next fall. The nonprofit group is based in Palo Alto, Calif.
Yale offers a unique mix of a creative and intellectual environment, Grissom said, which is why he wanted to go there. He likes challenges, likes taking risks, and is looking forward to this one. He was overjoyed when he found out the news, he said.
"My mom cried and tackled me," he said. When he got the phone call telling him he was in, Grissom said he was in such shock he couldn't respond. He closed his door, sat in his room, and clapped his hands.
"I'm ecstatic, that's my baby," his mother, Maria Grissom, a hairdresser at Glitter Salon in Fayetteville, said. "I knew he could do it though."
The 17-year-old will be the first in his family to attend college. He lives in Austell with his mother, his mom's older sister, Felicia Grissom, and 14-year-old brother Michael, a student at Garrett Middle School. His father has never been in the picture, Ms. Grissom said. Her son has kept a 4.596 grade-point average in the International Baccalaureate, or IB, program at Campbell. He couldn't be more thrilled with where he is, but he did not always picture this life.
"Freshman and sophomore year-if I had to say where I thought I would be, it wasn't very positive," he said. "Some of the choices I made, the people I hung out with, it wouldn't lead you anywhere positive."
That all changed after a teacher made a comment in class.
"They told me I needed to be more responsible, I had a lot going for me," he said. "It was embarrassing. I smiled it off. But I went home and took it to heart."
Sophomore year was his breaking point, he said. He thought about dropping out of the IB program. The homework was daunting. He was working at Chik-Fil-A to help his mother, a hairdresser at Glitter Salon in Fayetteville, pay the bills. Still, he knew the time he spent on his studies would be worthwhile.
Grissom's teachers, whom he credits with motivating and challenging him, say his success is his own doing.
Melyn Roberson has taught Grissom Spanish throughout his high school years. Other teachers have encouraged him, Grissom said, but Ms. Roberson made him feel intelligent.
Ms. Roberson laughs when she hears that. "I think he gives me so much more credit than I deserve. I just saw a spark-you see it in somebody's eyes, the way they participate," she said.
"He gives as much to me as I gave to him."
And it's not just in the classroom that he inspires her. Last spring, Grissom was among students that donated their own money to replace Ms. Roberson's iPod after thieves broke into her car.
"I hope I inspire him, but I think he came with that," she said.
"He is one of a kind."
He's a hard worker, she said, and he is intelligent, but he remains a young man. And that's refreshing, she said. She has watched him grow to value academics. But he has not become too serious, she said, and that's good.
A social life is important, Grissom said. He likes to go to football games and play rugby, although he plans to replace rugby with crew once he lands in New Haven, Conn. This year he's had more time to enjoy high school since he quit his job.
"Those were the tougher years," he said of his sophomore and junior years. "But it's all worked out somehow."
Grissom isn't sure what his future holds. Art and design are passions, and he is planning to major in architecture. But he's 17, and knows that could change.
Whatever he does, he hopes it will be positive. Grissom doesn't have an answer to the eternal question of where he will be in the future, but there's one thing he's sure of.
It will be "where I have achieved something totally unexpected," he said, smiling.
efarnsworth@mdjonline.com
By Elizabeth Farnsworth
Marietta Daily Journal Staff Writer



















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Congratulations to Grissom! I love reading good news first thing on a Monday morning.
Thank you for such a bright and positive story on today's teenagers! Here's to wishing Ray Grissom a lifetime of success, and the compassion to "pay it forward".
Ray, I don't know you personally but I pray that your success will be an avenue of "HOPE" for other young black men and this will inspire them to follow their dreams no matter how rugged the path seem, there is light at the end the dark tunnel. Congratulations and I know your fuuture will be bright.
Congratulations! This is a wonderful story and I wish much continued success to this hard-working young man.
Congratulations on a well-deserved success. The world will be better with future leaders like you. All the best.
Good for you! Congrats to you and your mother for sticking with the program and getting it done.
What a great story!
Raymond, I am so proud of you! My heart is smiling! I'm so thankful to God for being so faithful and walking with you in your journey. You did it! As you know, I'm familiar with your struggle, since I've experienced it myself. Just know I love ya and I thank God for your spirit!
I AM SO PROUD OF MY SON HE GAVE ME SUCH A WONDERFUL CHRISTMAS PRESENT AND HIS HARD WORK THAT I SEE EACH AND EVERYDAY KEEP ME FROM RELAXING AND KEEP ME ON MY TOES SO I CAN CONTINUE TO TRY TO GIVE HIM WHAT HE NEEDS AND DESERVES. THANK EVERYONE FOR ALL THEY HAVE DONE AND ALL THE GREAT COMMENTS. THANKS AGAIN!
Awesome! Congratulations to Grissom, and wishing him great future success.
this is your uncle brandon im proud of u raymond
You go man!! You are on the way...Wishing you lots of success and hope all your dreams continue coming thru. Keep up the great work and make us all proud.
Congratulations to Mr. Grissom. May God continue to smile upon you as you go forward in life, and as you embark on a new journey please remember this. Proverbs 3:5-6; Trust in the Lord with all thine, and lean not to thy own understanding, but in all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct thy path. God Bless!
Wonderful work, Ray!!! Very excited for you and will pray for your continued success! Ms. Grissom, I congratulate you on being a good mother; for not being a statistic but a breaker of stereotypes against the norm. GOD BLESS YOU!!
Congratulations to Ray! This was a wonderful and inspiring story, hard work pays off!
Many Blessings to you for your perserverance during tough times and for a very successful future! What an awesome testimony!
Ray- Congratulations! You are truly an inspiration. Continue to stay motivated and excel in ALL that you do. Ms. Grissom- You have obviously done an exceptional job with your son. I know your heart must be bursting with joy and pride. Ray's victory and success is yours as well. Thank you for molding and encouraging this incredible young man! May God bless you and your family.
CONGRATS RAYMOND! I am so proud of you and all your accomplishments. Thank you for allowing my kids to see a positive story on the news concerning our youth. It's been such a pleasure watching you grow into this remarkable young man. Keep up the good work, you have a bright future ahead of you.
Congratulations Raymond to you and your family, you are such an inspiration to teenager's today! I wish you the best in all your future endeavors and Asia says hi and she is so proud of you, you are definitely an inspiration! God Bless
Congratulations Ray!! You're an inspiration to me, a fellow young black man who has had to deal with adversity in my life. But like you, I am trying my hardest to reach the full extent of who I am. It is my dream as well to attend Yale. With the glory, grace and love of the Lord I will continue to work hard and hopefully I will see you on campus in 2009!! I wish you all the best in your journey through life.
I'd like to congratulate Grissom, as well as Ms. Roberson for supporting and encouraging Grissom.
This story was very heart felt and moving. I was in tears and felt overjoyed while reading the accomplishments that this young man has made in his very young 17 years. He gives me hope for my 6 year old son who I pray will grow up to be smart and make positive decisions like Grissom. I am glad to hear that there is hope for our young men who are growing up in single parent homes. Those who are able to take heed to positive instruction and go for a better life than what surrounds them is a major factor to the path of success. Congratulations to Grissom. God bless his mother who has done an excellent job as a single mother raising this fine young man. You are my inspiration!
Wow, is all I can say. I am so overjoyed for you and your family. Ray, you are the example of what I tell my children each day!! No matter what obstacles you face in life, never give up and keep all your faith in God. To your mom; all I can say is great job and you inspire me!! She is a wonderful lady who is full of life and has passed great values on to you. Keep doing what you guys are doing because this is only the beginning. God Bless!!
Barbar Stegall - Raymond, I am so very proud of you. I know that you are going to be a great leader in this world. Just remember you are never given a dream without being given the power to make it come true. And I know you will make it happen. Love, Your aunt Barbara
Congrats, Raymond from your uncle Quinton im very proud of you. I know you will be very successful in what ever you decide to become. Much love and success.